How can i stop my parents involving me in their divorce? its stressing me out!?

I feel for you. My siblings and I were always put in the middle of my parents divorce. They don't realize how it hurt us. I am now 46 and going through similiar. My daughters father is always trying to make me look bad and him and his new wife the "good guys". In fact, I am the one who keeps trying to keep her out of it because she is a 7 year old child. She should not be put in the middle of this at all. She is stressed out by his constant involvement of her. The judge ordered us to take co-parenting cles to help us get along. I did that on my own long before the judge ordered it. I found out during the cl, that I was the one doing right thing for my daughter. To this day, he has still refused to take the cl. Talk to a school counselor, minister, trusted neighbor,, aunt, someone who you can talk to and maybe they can talk to her. We have a place called "Parents Place, and Child Care Resource Referral". Some times these places have cles that are offered. maybe you can get that information for a co-parenting cl and leave it for your mom, or ask her to consider it. Just keep telling your mom, NICELY, that you do not wish to be involved. This is their job to communicate civilly for the your sake. She needs to talk to him herself.